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There's only one type of person that will make it in life,
and that's the type of person that has confidence, audacity, and delusion.
That acts when they say they will act, that does things instead of talking about it,
that doesn't announce their moves and say, "Oh my God, tomorrow I will achieve this."
No, no, no.
They're quiet, and you see their results.
Those are the type of people that will make it.
You think you're not confident right now?
You think, "Oh my God, I can never be confident?" Bullshit.
You can't decide right now that this is the last time that you will allow people to talk to you like you're a nobody.
This is the last time you will walk with your hunchback like this, acting like you are not the shit, because you are.
And once you start believing that you are, is when you will make it.
Those people are not better than you, they're not smarter than you.
They have audacity.
In this life to make it, you need cojones.
You know what that is?
You need balls.
This video, I will show you how to become the most confident, delusion version of yourself,
and how to achieve anything you want.
Hi guys, my name is Liz, and welcome back to my channel.
Okay, let's get into it.
First things first, first, what is confidence?
Confidence is being yourself without anyone's permission on how you should live, on how you should act, on who you are.
You need to know who you are.
You need to listen to yourself.
You need to act on what you want and not what somebody else thinks what you should do.
Not what your parents think what you should do.
You came into this life with pure potential.
Okay, when you were born, you had pure potential.
What happened then?
Your parents raised you.
Your parents raised you with their limiting beliefs.
If they didn't believe that they could achieve anything in life, they installed that same mindset into you.
But that doesn't mean that you still don't have that pure potential within you.
You can still decide now as an adult, you know what?
This mindset was not created by me.
I don't need to keep living like this.
I don't need to keep living because society told me what I need to do, because culture told me this is how I need to act.
You can decide right now for yourself, you know what?
No, I'm going to live the way I want to live.
I'm going to live in accordance with my own voice.
And once you start living like that, confidence will bloom.
Because you're walking in your truth.
You're walking with your authenticity.
You're not looking around for, "Will they like me?
Is this approved by this person?"
They will never approve of you.
You can lie flat on the ground, and people will still tell you, "You're not flat enough."
Another thing that people always say is like, confidence is just accepting yourself.
Bro, what?
What does that even mean?
What does that even mean?
Do you think you should just accept yourself right now and now you're gonna be confident?
No, of course not.
Of course, there's some things that you should accept about yourself.
You should like yourself.
You cannot change these things, okay?
But a lot of things, for example, me, I'm naturally a very lazy person.
All I want to do is lie down, have people provide for me, and do absolutely nothing.
Now, if I'm going to accept myself because that's who I truly am,
I'm going to live a miserable life.
Who's going to provide for me?
No one is going to do that.
I have to work.
I have to get up.
I have to still make shit happen.
And the same thing is with you.
Why are you brushing your teeth even in the morning?
Don't brush your teeth.
Lay there.
Lay all day in your bed.
Do nothing.
Scroll TikTok all day.
And then watch how confident you will be.
No.
You have to have discipline in life.
You have to go for what you want.
Another thing to become more confident is focus on your life.
You guys don't mind your business all day.
You're sitting.
You're scrolling on that phone.
What is this celebrity doing?
What is this day relationship like?
You don't have life.
You're not focusing on yourself.
Tomorrow you'll be 80 years old.
You have grandchildren.
They'll be poor because of you, because you were so busy with what that stupid celebrity is doing.
Do something yourself.
Become a celebrity.
Do something.
You're sitting there, you're wasting your life away,
and you're thinking, "Oh, why am I not confident?"
You're doom scrolling all day like a like a slave to your phone like this, like this.
No, I can't fix my life.
No, of course you can't.
You're addicted to your phone.
You're sitting there like you can't even face yourself,
and you expect to face the world.
As we head into the new year, I had some big changes in life,
and obviously, since becoming a mom, everything shifted.
I was so grateful that I am still in therapy because of
That, because I need therapy more now than ever.
I did not expect becoming a mom to be this big of a change in my life. um
I really enjoyed having my therapist to talk to, unpack all these feelings,
and to kind of let go of that past version of myself that I kind of never got to say goodbye to.
It's like I just went from being this list to now momless, and it's a completely different person.
My therapist really has helped me, and I honestly could not recommend therapy much more.
think confidence is really when you understand yourself and why you are this way or what is happening.
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Oh yeah.
Face your fears repeatedly.
So, for example, I am quite afraid of being seen.
I don't post a lot.
I don't really go to events.
I'm uncomfortable with these things.
But still, I still keep showing up.
I keep showing up.
I keep putting myself out there.
Because at one point, I'm going to become very confident and very comfortable in being able to put myself out there.
Because I do it again and again and again.
And the same lessons will repeat themselves.
Once you think like, "Oh my God, you know what?
I'm over this lesson.
I've learned this lesson."
It's not going to happen anymore.
I promise you it will happen again and again and again until you literally don't have to learn that lesson anymore.
Another thing you need to realize is your brain is not trying to make you successful.
Your brain is trying to keep you safe.
So a lot of times when you think, "Oh my God, I really don't want to go to the gym today,"
you think like, "I should listen to my brain because I think I don't want to."
No, that's your comfort zone.
That's literally you in your safety.
Your brain will never tell you, "Oh my God, go to the gym right now and go do this."
No.
You have to think like, "Okay, what do I want more than I want to be comfortable?
What do I want?"
So if you think like, "Okay, by the summer I want this body, right?
I want to feel confident in my body.
I want to do this, that."
You can't sit there and think, "Oh my God, I'm not going to do anything today.
I'm just going to sit and do nothing and expect that to come."
No, you need to get up, get your ass to the gym, even if you don't feel like it,
and then do a workout, even if it's for 10 minutes,
because at least you've done what you said you would do.
And every day you're moving closer to your goal.
Because once you achieve that goal, you will have to start actual confidence in yourself
because you didn't lie to yourself.
You actually did that thing what you said you were going to do.
That's how you create confidence.
Imagine like you have a person in your life and they say, "Oh, I'm going to do this for you, this and that."
And every time they say, they never do it.
Will you have confidence in that person?
No, of course not.
Because they never do what they said they were going to do.
Confidence is all about literally putting your action behind your words.
I tell myself, "I'm going to achieve this.
I don't care how delusional it is.
Watch me achieve it."
I will make a whole spectacle of it, and I will achieve it.
And I don't care.
This is how I am wired.
Failure in my head doesn't exist.
Even if it doesn't work out, I believe something better will happen.
And this is how you have to think as well.
This is how your mindset have to be as well.
Understand that nothing is a setback in life.
Every step you have taken, every day you're moving forward.
Every day.
Anything that happens that you think like, "Shit man, I can never get back from this,"
you will get back from that.
You will rise again.
That is how life works.
You will learn from that situation.
You will be wiser after that.
So be grateful.
Don't see anything that happens to you as like, "Oh my God, life is trying to destroy me."
No, nothing is trying to destroy you.
Get yourself up and say, "Okay, thank you for the lesson.
Thank you for the blessings. Move on."
A lot of you guys, the reason why you're not achieving anything is because you guys don't move on.
You stay stuck in the past.
You stay stuck with people when you know you should be gone.
You know you should not be there anymore.