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How would they know what they're going to get out of life?
We're the ones that control our reality.
So I'm the one that decides the life that I live.
But if you don't know who you are, if you don't know what you want,
if you don't know what you
deserve, you're not going to get that. And also first, it's building an identity.
Ask yourself every question that I just said, like, who are you?
What do you want?
What do you think you deserve?
Write that on paper and ask yourself that question every single day.
And then you'll have some sort of like an identity form.
If someone asked you the question right now saying, who are you?
Most people would respond, um, Hudson, but there's a lot deeper
things behind just your name when it comes to your identity.
It's like, but that, that doesn't take that much to change having an identity.
Um, and it will develop over time and stuff like that. It also comes with like ego.
which ego obviously I talk with is all the time it's not a bad thing,
you have to have an ego.
Because guess what?
What else in Cosper be here right now speaking to y'all
if I didn't have an ego? No,
I had an ego so I kept posting on social media and
I kept making more money because I was
like, you know what?
I'm not gonna let myself fail because at the end of the day I'm Hudson Cosper.
So why would I ever let myself fail?
That's what you need.
Ego, identity, those are the first two things.
And then it
comes with something in a truth that not a lot of y'all are going to want to hear.
But most rich people
are evil and you have to be evil or bad if you want to manifest and get
things out of life
I'll explain why and it's not evil in a sense like
oh you're doing terrible things to get rich not evil in that way
but most people would look at you as evil even now to this day
there's some people around me like
my mom maybe not my sister I don't know but like my family that things
like wow like you are definitely like a selfish ass person you're this you're that
and not then in the day
like I still treat them good but when it comes to like money I always put it first Even though
the
only reason I put money above family is simply because I need money to help my family,
so I'm gonna put
it first.
I'm gonna go isolate myself for six months, and then guess what? You're good.
Now I can provide for my family or whatever.
Whatever people are like thinking when it comes to providing for their family.
I never really like isolated for that long, like obviously
I don't know.
I guess the most I ever isolated is when I was like 18 still living with my mom.
But other than then, like I never really isolated.
I guess the longest I've ever went without speaking to my family was like five months,
which I guess that is
a long time.
But the psychology behind getting rich that a lot of people aren't gonna wanna hear is simply that
that rich
people are some sort of like evil.
But it's not that they're evil.
It's that they're comfortable being evil.
They're comfortable being the villain.
They don't care to be selfish.
at all
they don't care to be seen as
good I don't care if someone's like oh Hudson's such a good
person like that does not apply to me the only thing that matters in my head is
money I don't need
validation from anyone I don't care to be friends with anyone I don't care what anyone's opinion on me is.
So therefore, what does that make me?
By definition, I guess it would make me someone that's like narcissistic.
That's what a lot of people would say.
But you have to be narcissistic in order to win this game of life.
You have to love yourself so much and love yourself so much more than any single person around you.
If I didn't love myself more than everyone around me, I would have led
my old friends that I'm not friends
with anymore, get inside of my head, and then I never would have started any of this.
Or I would have listened to my parents maybe.
I was so narcissistic and so egotistical that when
my mom would even share an opinion when I was like 14
online, I would just shut it up.
I wouldn't even talk to her, I wouldn't even care.
isolation also comes like people would think that's a bad thing like oh going to year without speaking your family.
But these things are necessary in order to get rich and you just have to do them.
But that is such a real thing that
people who are successful are fine with being looked down upon because they
know who they are internally.
I know who I am.
I have an identity.
I have a relationship with God.
I know who I am and no one's going to break that.
People can look at me however they want.
It's simply not going to affect me because the only thing I care about right now
is getting even richer.
And if you were not rich at all right now, then you
or at a different standpoint, where like you have
to go even harder to get to where you want to go, like even even harder.
Like for me, it's just scaling, scaling, scaling, keep doing the things that I'd already do.
But if you know absolutely nothing,
then it's gonna be a lot harder for you, but you can make it easier.
With all the things that I was talking about, identity, ego, being comfortable with being
evil and then the last thing that I would say is like some deep rooted psychology behind
getting rich is your
unconscious and a lot of people don't even know what it is but we have two basically parts
in our mind
it's our unconscious and it's our conscious And trust me,
in your unconscious, there's a lot of
not messed up things
in there, but there's a lot of things that you do not know that are in there because guess what?
It knows every single thing about you.
You can't run from it, you can't escape from it.
Your unconscious is literally you, but some people say it's all the bad parts of you and stuff like that.
but you have to see what's in your unconscious.
Like, consciously you know why you want to get rich.
And consciously you would say you want to get rich because
you want to help your family and you want to
be able to go travel and have location freedom and time freedom with all these little things.
Now you're unconscious.
Behind your unconscious you want to get rich.
I promise you for not very good reasons.
Maybe you want to shit on everyone else.
Maybe you want to look better than other people.
These are things you have to make conscious.
So those are things you have to become aware of. Awareness in this world is everything.
You have to become aware of everything.
And the first step is seeking knowledge.
If you want to get rich, you have to seek knowledge over information.
And then the information comes because if
If I put information inside of someone that is so unconscious as head right now,
and I said, this is the whole blueprint to get rich, they're still going to do nothing with it.
Nothing because knowledge comes first.
And when I say knowledge, I'm talking about like,
Knowledge is in like rewiring your brain and to your unconscious like
this type of knowledge like very esoteric stuff.
That's what you need first.
You need to learn how the mental works because the mental is what controls the physical.
So, if I went to hand someone a whole blooper and I had to get rich,
but they were so unconscious,
they weren't aware they had no identity, they had no ego, they had no awareness, they're gonna get nowhere.
That's why I always talk about this before I talk about business.
Every once in a while,
I'll go make a YouTube item on high ticket sales like the business model that got
me rich and the business model that got hundreds of others of my students rich.
But the reason I focus on this
is so when I go put out those high ticket sales videos,
that people
are already conscious.
They're already in the right mindset to where they can't start the business model, and it'll click.
Because hard work does not get you rich becoming conscious does.
And that's just how I'm going to end off the video.
But if you do, one, two, obviously, get certain high ticket sales.
I'm starting to try to push it a lot more because I realize how much I never,
ever push it out
on people.
And since it's such like an easy business model, it's like the best thing in the world.
I feel like I'm doing a disservice to myself to not push it out.
So in the description of the free training, if you'll watch my last video, it's still in there.
It's like 10 minutes long. 10 minutes long.
It breaks down high ticket sales and everything.
But go watch it and you will learn a lot.