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A Bigger Life Beyond Marriage
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I like you people.
I like you, and I like you.
Here's what I would say to you though, if you were my daughter.
I think that one of the biggest mistakes women make
is make their lives about get a guy, get a house, get married, and have kids.
Because once you make your life that narrow,
you have to compromise and compromise and compromise until all of
a sudden You have no options.
You have nowhere to go.
You can't move. You can't shift.
You can't go to the side.
You don't have any independence and any power.
Independence is not a bad thing.
It's a wonderful thing.
And you ought to have a bigger life,
a life that involves passions and interests and opportunities and things that excite
you that are unrelated to whether or not you got this guy or not.
That's a couple of things for you.
Number one, it gives you leverage.
in a relationship because you're not defined solely by that relationship.
It is a big part of you.
It is a good part of you, but you can survive without it.
And I think people who believe there was someone who'd have no other options
end up doing whatever they want to do.
And it's not because they're bad people, but that's human nature.
She can't go nowhere so I can do what I want.
It's not thought.
Logically, but it ends up being that way.
He can keep demanding.
He can keep demanding.
And what happens is, first of all, it's about the cooking isn't good.
And then you block hunts catch up instead of hinds catch up.
And then it's about the crackers.
Because you don't have any other options. He's in charge.
And there is a right.
And there is a wrong.
And there's no breath.
There's no opinion.
There's no room for opinion.
I think if you blossom, he'll see it. He'll love it.
He'll understand how to nurture and cherish it.
And then once you've got a fully bloomed and blossomed woman and
you are allowing her to be the woman that
she can be, you ain't gonna ask her.
You won't need to ask her to submit because she'll follow you because she likes where your head is.
It's a beautiful thing.
Don't get sloppy
be a whole woman, all of it.
Everything that you can do, but it was a brilliant move to move out. Stroke a dream.
I'm not going to give anybody anything because I want you to,
to work on being a good couple, because I
think there's very little standing in between you and a successful relationship. I really do.
I hope you understood what I said, and if you didn't, at so, so sad, this matter is adjourned.
Calling constant criticism help or instruction doesn't make it so.
It's like going outside and kicking your car because it doesn't work.
You're injuring the thing, you're trying to make better.
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