I like you people.我喜欢你们这些人。
I like you, and I like you.我喜欢你，而且我喜欢你。
Here's what I would say to you though, if you were my daughter.不过，如果你是我女儿的话，我会对你说这些。
I think that one of the biggest mistakes women make我认为女性犯的最大错误之一
is make their lives about get a guy, get a house, get married, and have kids.就是把生活重心放在找个男人、买房子、结婚生子上。
Because once you make your life that narrow,因为一旦你把生活变得那么狭窄。
you have to compromise and compromise and compromise until all of你就不得不一再妥协，直到突然
a sudden You have no options.之间你发现自己别无选择。
You have nowhere to go.你无处可去。
You can't move. You can't shift.你无法移动。你无法改变。
You can't go to the side.你不能走到一边去。
You don't have any independence and any power.你没有任何独立性和任何权力。
Independence is not a bad thing.独立不是一件坏事。
It's a wonderful thing.这是一件美妙的事情。
And you ought to have a bigger life,而且你应该拥有更广阔的生活。
a life that involves passions and interests and opportunities and things that excite一种包含激情、兴趣、机会以及令人兴奋的事物的生活
you that are unrelated to whether or not you got this guy or not.那些与你是否得到这个男人无关的事情
That's a couple of things for you.这对你来说有几件事。
Number one, it gives you leverage.第一，它给了你筹码。
in a relationship because you're not defined solely by that relationship.在一段关系中，因为你不仅仅由那段关系来定义。
It is a big part of you.它是你很重要的一部分。
It is a good part of you, but you can survive without it.它是你好的那一部分，但没有它你也能活下去。
And I think people who believe there was someone who'd have no other options而且我认为那些相信有人别无选择的人
end up doing whatever they want to do.最终会做他们想做的任何事。
And it's not because they're bad people, but that's human nature.这并不是因为他们是坏人，而是人性使然。
She can't go nowhere so I can do what I want.她哪儿也去不了，所以我可以为所欲为。
It's not thought.这不是深思熟虑的结果。
Logically, but it ends up being that way.逻辑上如此，但最终结果却是那样。
He can keep demanding.他可以一直要求下去。
He can keep demanding.他可以一直要求下去。
And what happens is, first of all, it's about the cooking isn't good.而且发生的情况是，首先，问题在于烹饪不好。
And then you block hunts catch up instead of hinds catch up.然后你阻止了狩猎追赶，而不是母鹿追赶。
And then it's about the crackers.然后问题在于饼干。
Because you don't have any other options. He's in charge.因为你没有其他选择。他负责。
And there is a right.而且有一种权利。
And there is a wrong.而且存在一个错误。
And there's no breath.而且没有呼吸。
There's no room for opinion.没有发表意见的余地。
I think if you blossom, he'll see it. He'll love it.我想如果你绽放，他会看到的。他会喜欢的。
He'll understand how to nurture and cherish it.他会懂得如何培养和珍惜它。
And then once you've got a fully bloomed and blossomed woman and然后，一旦你拥有一个完全绽放的女人。
you are allowing her to be the woman that你允许她成为那个
she can be, you ain't gonna ask her.她可以成为的女人，你就不会去要求她。
You won't need to ask her to submit because she'll follow you because she likes where your head is.你不需要要求她顺从，因为她会跟随你，因为她喜欢你的想法。
It's a beautiful thing.这是一件美好的事情。
be a whole woman, all of it.做一个完整的女人，全部都要。
Everything that you can do, but it was a brilliant move to move out. Stroke a dream.你能做所有事，但搬出去是绝妙的一步。去追寻一个梦想。
I'm not going to give anybody anything because I want you to,我不会因为我想让你做什么就给任何人任何东西。
to work on being a good couple, because I努力成为一对好伴侣，因为我
think there's very little standing in between you and a successful relationship. I really do.我认为你和一段成功的关系之间几乎没有什么障碍。我真的这么认为。
I hope you understood what I said, and if you didn't, at so, so sad, this matter is adjourned.我希望你听懂了我说的，如果你没听懂，那真是太遗憾了，这件事到此为止。
Calling constant criticism help or instruction doesn't make it so.把持续的批评称为帮助或指导并不能改变事实。
It's like going outside and kicking your car because it doesn't work.这就像走到外面踢你的车，因为它不工作了。
You're injuring the thing, you're trying to make better.你正在伤害那个你试图改善的东西。
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